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tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:36 PM, August 10th (Saturday)

It was nice. I enjoyed myself. Chatted a bit with my coworkers. (Coworker got married.) But I felt weird...like I shouldn't be there. Dunno what that was all about...ex-shat and I didn't have a wedding (just went to the courthouse), so no triggers. Maybe just the whole marriage, till death do us part thing. Maybe it was that everyone was paired up and I was the obvious single.
I'm still glad I went but at the same time, feeling down about the whole thing.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4655 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
stillstrong
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Default  Posted: 11:42 PM, August 10th (Saturday)

I haven't been to a wedding, but I see lots of weddings and it always makes me feel sad for their future. Maybe you just feel like the whole thing is kind of a farce/pointless/doomed?
Not that I'm bitter or anything


Me BS 47
Him WS 51
DDay LTA Feb 21, 2006
R until DDay 2EA's 1/31/12 ONS 2/5/12 Broken NC 7/12/12
Moved out 9/12
Legally Separated 3/13


Posts: 848 | Registered: Jul 2012
click4it
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Member # 209
Default  Posted: 11:47 PM, August 10th (Saturday)

Tesla, I feel that same type of feeling when I go to weddings. I feel happy for the couple and have a nice time, but just feel "blah" after. Its understandable. (((hugs)))


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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Posts: 25598 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
SBB
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Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

I've been to 4 weddings this past year.

The first was tough - by the fourth I was partying like a boss and dancing like it was 1999.

It gets easier.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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