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sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 7:44 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

We were married on the beach almost 8 years ago. When we left the marriage property we scooped up some sand from the exact spot we made our vows. Last night I saw a sunset alone for the first time since I can remember. As the sun dipped into the water I poured that sand back into the Gulf. It served its purpose. That Promise she made is now a lie.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 734 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
brainless twit
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Member # 12085
Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

((((((sunsetslost))))))


"Sometimes I guess there just aren't enough rocks." --Forrest Gump

D-Day 8/7/06
Divorced 12/14/09
R Began 5/21/11
D-Day #2 7/9/13 (OW #2 is OW #1's first cousin)
Limbo? I don't even know if that's what this is.


Posts: 1541 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Kentucky
TxsT
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Member # 39996
Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

Awww sun I am sorry.

T


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!


Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

((sunsetslost)) Sometimes symbolic things like this can really help you move on to the next step in your healing. I hope that is true for you. It's important to accept what has happened in order to move forward.

((sunsetslost))

[This message edited by kernel at 1:06 PM, August 11th (Sunday)]


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5058 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
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