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User Topic: The pain is over
crazynot
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Member # 24572
Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

Just a quick post. As you'll see from my profile, I had a hideous experience of infidelity that ended with STBX leaving me and the kids for POSOW. And four years later, we've just spent a great day together with our son at a football match. I can honestly say that, although he's still with OW, and although we have been married for 28 years, there is NOTHING but friendship, affection and laughter between us now. I told my lawyer to finalise the divorce earlier this week, and yesterday was our 28th anniversary. I'm glad I married him and I'm glad it ended. Life DOES go on, and time DOES heal if you let it.


Me - 50
Him - 51
DDay 21 March 2009
Divorcing and delighted!

Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it.


Posts: 860 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
myperfectlife
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Member # 39801
Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

This is so nice to hear.
Thank you for sharing this and congratulations to you for achieving peace.


I cannot be responsible for another's personal growth.
DDay#1 of a "cheatillion" 4/1/13
Divorce final 11/04/13

Posts: 452 | Registered: Jul 2013
gma56
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, August 11th (Sunday)


The indifference is a difficult path but so much peace when it finally happens.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20368 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
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