Just a quick post. As you'll see from my profile, I had a hideous experience of infidelity that ended with STBX leaving me and the kids for POSOW. And four years later, we've just spent a great day together with our son at a football match. I can honestly say that, although he's still with OW, and although we have been married for 28 years, there is NOTHING but friendship, affection and laughter between us now. I told my lawyer to finalise the divorce earlier this week, and yesterday was our 28th anniversary. I'm glad I married him and I'm glad it ended. Life DOES go on, and time DOES heal if you let it.Me - 50
Him - 51
DDay 21 March 2009
Divorcing and delighted!
Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it.
Posts: 626 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
myperfectlife Member Member # 39801
Posted: 9:48 AM, August 11th (Sunday)
This is so nice to hear.
Thank you for sharing this and congratulations to you for achieving peace."The best proof of love is trust."
"We can become so focused on what we’re missing that we don’t process what we know." ~Painfulpast
"NMP anymore" (Not my problem)
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gma56 Member Member # 19595
Posted: 12:24 PM, August 11th (Sunday)
The indifference is a difficult path but so much peace when it finally happens. BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, and my mistakes to make.
“The greatest challenge in life is discovering who you are. The second greatest is being happy with what you find.”
Cheating isn't a mistake,it's a choice.