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lux444
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

She is in the emergency room as I type this, she is having seizures that won't stop. I am not sure what is going to happen and we are all very worried. Please say prayers for her thank you!


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

Saying prayers


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

(((dil)))

Saying prayers and keeping her in my thoughts.




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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

Prayers said.


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

praying. (((hugs)))


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 12 DS 9
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

Praying for her

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travels
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

Sending prayers.


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TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

(((Lux, dil, and family)))

Lots and lots of loving prayers


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 10 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 8, 5, 2, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

What am I doing?


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Saying prayers!!!


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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lux444
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Update: They transported her to another hospital and she is in a coma. At this point they don't know if it was seizure related or not. They have her tubed and said her respritory system is failing. Thank you for your prayers and I will keep you updated when I hear something. She has 3 young kids that are scared to death and my son is so big and strong and to see him break down is almost more than I can take. Thank you all


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

(((lux, dil and family)))


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Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Praying for your family and DIL. ((((lux,family))))


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

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movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Praying she will be ok......HUGS


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Saying prayers and adding hugs.

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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click4it
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

sending prayers (((lux)))


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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dameia
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Praying for her and the entire family


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Sending prayers.

(((((((((lux)))))))))


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burnt_toast
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Sending prayers.


It is what it is.

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Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Oh lux, I just saw this. I'm sending as many prayers as possible. Please keep us posted. Sounds terribly frightening.


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brkn_heartd
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Prayers for your dil and family.


Me-50 BS
Him 57-WS
Married 30 yrs, together 33
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Lifting her and the family up in prayer


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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ItsaClimb
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Default  Posted: 5:24 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Just saw this. Sending prayers and hugs


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 18yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Sending support, prayers, and hugs.




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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, August 12th (Monday)

((((((lux & family)))))) holding you all in my thoughts, honey.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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UnexpectedSong
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Sending strength. I understand nonstop seizures.


WW(SA)
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5454real
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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Strength and prayers


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

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sunandmoon
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Love and Prayers for you, yur DIL and family!

sunandmoon


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lux444
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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, August 12th (Monday)

UPDATE: My son just called and they told him they no longer think she is in a coma and she should be okay and up and running in a few days!! They found an infection in her system and think thats what may have caused it they still are not sure. Thank you for all the prayers they meant a lot to the family.


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, August 12th (Monday)

I missed this earlier. So glad to see the update! I hope she continues to heal and feel better.



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yewtree
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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, August 12th (Monday)

Oh goodness, I'm glad to hear she is on the mend. So scary for them all!


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, August 12th (Monday)

I'm so glad to hear that! Sending prayers and good thoughts to your family.


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And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, August 12th (Monday)

WOW!! That's AMAZING news!!! Sending continued prayers for her recovery.

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Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, August 12th (Monday)

Such good news! Still sending prayers for ultra speedy recovery!


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:50 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Wonderful news! I'm so happy for you all.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 12:54 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

This is great news!!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:32 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

What a relief, lux. Sending continued strength and comfort to you and your family.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Oh, thank God! I just saw this. I'm so happy for you all.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Amen!!

Septic shock (if that is the type of infection to which you were referring) will definitely threaten organ failure. I am so relieved to hear they found the cause and that she is recovering so well!

Hugs to all...

Lala


Me - 48; FWH - 50
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 26
4yo GS & 14 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/14(DD30) and 2yo GD(DD26). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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JustDone
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Hope she's doing even better today.

Hugs!


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Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.


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