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lux444
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

She is in the emergency room as I type this, she is having seizures that won't stop. I am not sure what is going to happen and we are all very worried. Please say prayers for her thank you!


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

Saying prayers


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

(((dil)))

Saying prayers and keeping her in my thoughts.


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

Prayers said.


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

praying. (((hugs)))


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

Praying for her

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travels
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

Sending prayers.


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TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, August 11th (Sunday)

(((Lux, dil, and family)))

Lots and lots of loving prayers


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 10 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 8, 5, 2, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

I'm getting out of here.


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Saying prayers!!!


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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lux444
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Update: They transported her to another hospital and she is in a coma. At this point they don't know if it was seizure related or not. They have her tubed and said her respritory system is failing. Thank you for your prayers and I will keep you updated when I hear something. She has 3 young kids that are scared to death and my son is so big and strong and to see him break down is almost more than I can take. Thank you all


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

(((lux, dil and family)))


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Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Praying for your family and DIL. ((((lux,family))))


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

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movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Praying she will be ok......HUGS


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Saying prayers and adding hugs.

K


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click4it
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

sending prayers (((lux)))


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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dameia
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Praying for her and the entire family


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Sending prayers.

(((((((((lux)))))))))


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burnt_toast
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Sending prayers.


It is what it is.

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Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Oh lux, I just saw this. I'm sending as many prayers as possible. Please keep us posted. Sounds terribly frightening.


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brkn_heartd
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Prayers for your dil and family.


Me-50 BS
Him 57-WS
Married 30 yrs, together 33
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Lifting her and the family up in prayer


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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ItsaClimb
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Default  Posted: 5:24 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Just saw this. Sending prayers and hugs


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Sending support, prayers, and hugs.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, August 12th (Monday)

((((((lux & family)))))) holding you all in my thoughts, honey.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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UnexpectedSong
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Sending strength. I understand nonstop seizures.


WW(SA)
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5454real
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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Strength and prayers


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
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― Sophocles, Antigone

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sunandmoon
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Love and Prayers for you, yur DIL and family!

sunandmoon


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lux444
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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, August 12th (Monday)

UPDATE: My son just called and they told him they no longer think she is in a coma and she should be okay and up and running in a few days!! They found an infection in her system and think thats what may have caused it they still are not sure. Thank you for all the prayers they meant a lot to the family.


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, August 12th (Monday)

I missed this earlier. So glad to see the update! I hope she continues to heal and feel better.



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yewtree
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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, August 12th (Monday)

Oh goodness, I'm glad to hear she is on the mend. So scary for them all!


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, August 12th (Monday)

I'm so glad to hear that! Sending prayers and good thoughts to your family.


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, August 12th (Monday)

WOW!! That's AMAZING news!!! Sending continued prayers for her recovery.

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Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, August 12th (Monday)

Such good news! Still sending prayers for ultra speedy recovery!


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:50 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Wonderful news! I'm so happy for you all.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 12:54 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

This is great news!!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:32 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

What a relief, lux. Sending continued strength and comfort to you and your family.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Oh, thank God! I just saw this. I'm so happy for you all.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Amen!!

Septic shock (if that is the type of infection to which you were referring) will definitely threaten organ failure. I am so relieved to hear they found the cause and that she is recovering so well!

Hugs to all...

Lala


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 26
5yo GS & 18 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/14(DD30) and 2yo GD(DD26). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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JustDone
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Hope she's doing even better today.

Hugs!


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Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.


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