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ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

I have a friend who is being dragged through the system by her deadbeat x. He obtained emergency custody by lying and she was not notified. He's paid ZERO cs for 14 years. My question is this: what should her attorney ask in her interrogatories? She's asking for 401k, ira, bank statements, checks, employment history, liens, real property, judgements, work history. Anything else? Help, please!


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1164 | Registered: Jun 2007
stillstrong
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Member # 36144
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

How the heck does someone who hasn't paid CS in 14 years get emergency custody?!
The only thing I can think of is additional income (from renting out a room, etc) My X's Firstwife owned a duplex, which I found out from a quick zillow search, and we found out she had a renter. Made a huge difference in her income.


Me BS 47
Him WS 51
DDay LTA Feb 21, 2006
R until DDay 2EA's 1/31/12 ONS 2/5/12 Broken NC 7/12/12
Moved out 9/12
Legally Separated 3/13


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ArkLaMiss
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Member # 14918
Default  Posted: 3:06 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

Still, the lawyer representing my friend is my daughter, a brand spanking new attorney. My friend's x is a SOCIAL WORKER! He and the wife are cray. He filed this due to my friend losing her job and having NO money. My daughter is representing my friend pro bono. She's already put in for cs modification, to raise it from $40 a week, which he never paid to begin with. Owes her $30,000 plus co pays. She's filing next for a lump sum judgement on arrearages. Then, filing with DA for criminal complaint for what he back owes.


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1164 | Registered: Jun 2007
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

I've got no advice, but I'll be holding your friend AND your DD in my thoughts. Sending strength and mojo.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Catwoman
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Member # 1330
Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, August 12th (Monday)

How did he pull off having a hearing when she was not properly served?

You might also want to ask for tax filings also.

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
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