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soconfusednow
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Member # 40078
Question  Posted: 11:58 PM, August 11th (Sunday)

I found out my WS has things OW gave him. I want to ask him to let me read them, discuss any questions I have, and burn them with me. I'm not sure if it's a good or bad idea. Any thoughts?


D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50
WH 52
NC-several
last broken NC 7/2013 (hopefully)
Married 29 years
2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?

Posts: 309 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
gonnabe2016
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Member # 34823
Default  Posted: 12:02 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Sounds like a good plan to me...


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7707 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
StrongerOne
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Member # 36915
Default  Posted: 12:07 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Burn, baby, burn!


DDay Feb 2011.
In R.

Posts: 841 | Registered: Sep 2012
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 12:42 AM, August 12th (Monday)

Good to read them.

I kept OWs letters, but i need the evidence!


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

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