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StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, August 12th (Monday)

I keep reading about the 180. What is the 180. It's referred to in many posts but I cannot find the original thread.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2210 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, August 12th (Monday)

The 180 is a way to help you heal by removing yourself for a spouse that is gaslighting or blameshifting or causing confusion to the situation to keep your emotions on full throttle.

You can read about it here

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51817 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, August 12th (Monday)

Thanks Moo!!

[This message edited by SI Staff at 6:22 PM, August 12th (Monday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, August 12th (Monday)

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11


FWW - 41
I'm big on personal responsibility. Own your shit. ALL OF IT.

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StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Thank you MovingUpward!!!!
I'll check out the article. Sounds like what I'm already doing. Maybe it will give me the strength to continue instead of caving in.
I love this man with all my heart, but I'm learning to love myself more and I've always loved God most.
Again, thank you!!!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2210 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Topic Posts: 5