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Sad in AZ
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Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Just a quick hi to let everyone know that I made it to my new location in upstate NY, everything is moved into my new apartment (it's a mess!), I'm sleeping in my own bed and I've started my new job (and should not be playing on SI ) More to come...


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20228 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Awesome!

Did you negotiate S.I. time into your contract? Cuz, you're gonna need it.

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21056 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Yay!!!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25526 | Registered: Aug 2011
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Welcome back to the East Coast!!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7697 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Awesome, Sazzy! When's the apartment warming party?


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15403 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4656 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
yewtree
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Member # 16671
Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)


Should ANY of us be on SI right now????


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


Posts: 4675 | Registered: Oct 2007
torn2bits
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Member # 28376
Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)

How wonderful and crazy for your apartment to be a mess!

So happy to hear you arrived safe and the new job is already off to a good start.


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)

I'm happy for you!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2688 | Registered: Jan 2010
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17413 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)


Posts: 35405 | Registered: Mar 2011
clba317
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Welcome to the neighborhood!


BS
DS9,DS5
M 11, D 8/1/05- not soon enough!

Posts: 217 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: NY
click4it
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Member # 209
Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)

you sound very happy.


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25607 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
cmego
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Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4157 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
cayc
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Default  Posted: 7:17 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)

I love how your username is now completely irrelevant

Can't wait to hear updates on how the job is going.


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3106 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
hexed
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Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)

looking forward to the 'more to come' posts


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

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Posts: 8452 | Registered: Apr 2008
Sad in AZ
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Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)

looking forward to the 'more to come' posts

There are some interesting prospects here (not at the job but in the area) Right now I'm trying to get settled and hook up with a hiking group before the cold weather sets in. It was 61 degrees this morning and I wanted to put the heat on in my car--I think I'm in trouble!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20228 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)

Um, yeah - your internal thermostat is going to be SO grumpy this winter.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25526 | Registered: Aug 2011
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

Yeah, what's with these temperatures? Jeesh.

Anyway, welcome back to the east. Hope you don't suffer frost bite in the next few days.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7229 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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