Look. Right now, if anything other than surviving the next 24 hours seems like a win, then that''s exactly what it is a win.
This time is survival time. You put your long-term goals and desires on the backburner and you just concentrate on Surviving One More Damned Day. You have to pick short-term goals that will allow your mind to focus, and try to set out longer-term goals with whatever mind is left.
You will not know the future for some time. That''s survival. At some point, you will start to see glimpses of what the future might look like for you good and bad. And you''ll start to think of plans to take advantage of what you see. And then little by little, you will start to see farther ahead and start to be able to set goals.
But at this point, minute by minute, to hour by hour is a win. Baby steps sistah. Taken in time. Sucks, but that IS the way it is. (((hugs)))