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User Topic: Just Read "Research on Internet Infidelity" in Healing Library
jackfish
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)

I just read the subject article in this website's Healing Library. My knees went weak reading it. So 100% true.

Interesting side note. When my wife and I would text, FB Message, email, etc., we actually communicated better than when we were physiaclly together. I tried to but she had this shell around her. yet, though electronics sources, she could.

Stunning article.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

I think that there's an element of confrontation, or "reality" if you will, that's removed when we communicate electronically. It's like we have artificial bravery because there's a middle man (woman? thing?) that will protect us from feeling too much.


It is better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. -Russian Proverb

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jackfish
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

Exactly J. So in my case, wife will probably be heading into FB Fabio's arms...and when the fantasy ends and real life kicks in, will they be in separate rooms FB messaging one another orrr. LOL

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