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soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 11:38 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)

Hello, I contacted the OW's husbands sister via FB.
This was about 6 weeks ago. I gave her my number but I have not heard from the OW husband.
I googled his name, nothing pops up. I have tried every avenue I can to get a number for him.
I may have located a brother.
I dont' know, should I just let it go?
They have been seeing each other almost 4 years now, we were in false reconciliation for over 3 years.
In the middle of divorcing right now.
I am thinking maybe it's just not meant for me to let the poor man know.


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 617 | Registered: May 2011
dawnmarie
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)

I would try one more time. Maybe the brother will be more direct with the BH. It's very likely the sister went straight to whooer to fix it with her as to not hurt her brother prematurely. Sometimes we women want to "fix" things to save others from pain.... I'm sure if she did, whooer gave her some song and dance and sister believed it.

[This message edited by dawnmarie at 11:59 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)]


"Always go with your gut...the mind will only tell you what you want to hear."
author......me!!
BS:41
WH: 44
DDay: 8/02/09 (just someone from work)
DDay: 10/27/09 Complete confession
WH has done everything right for R (that I know of).

Posts: 130 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: IA
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

if you aren't friends with the OW's H's sister, it most likely went to her "other" folder, which most people don't know about.

P.S. send me some names and any other info you have via pm, I'm pretty good at this kind of stuff.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


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