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tesla
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

I've kept up my friendship with ex-shat's step mom. I'm the daughter she never had and she has been able to keep up a relationship with Teslet. Haven't seen ex-shat's dad since last Sept...possibly even August. Ex-shat started lying about me to his dad and his dad was buying it. Teslet and I are going to meet ex-shat's stepmom today for a late lunch...she just texted and said his dad is coming too. I'm nervous and not sure about this.
Just going to keep the focus on Teslet the whole time until I can gauge what is going on with ex-shat's dad.
Mojo please.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4683 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
tryingagain74
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Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

You have been mojoed!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3620 | Registered: Oct 2011
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

Mojo your way but you don't need it. Ex-shat's pop wouldn't invite himself along if he wasn't beginning to see the truth of the situation.

Posts: 3445 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

mojo mojo mojo


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

Sending lots of mojo!


Walk away from anything or anyone who takes away your joy. Life is too short to put up with fools.

Posts: 13806 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
hexed
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

i hope it goes well!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8459 | Registered: Apr 2008
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

Sending mojo


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5262 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
dlmos
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Member # 36839
Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

Sending mojo!


BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced

Posts: 461 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Fort Worth,Texas
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

Thanks everyone! It went well. I could tell he was as apprehensive as I was. But we always got along so well so it wasn't too hard to find lots of safe ground to talk about.

I also think he realizes the only way he is going to consistently see his grandson is through me.

The things that ex-shat was saying about me to his dad were so incredibly hurtful. It hurt that his dad believed them...I know he wanted to hang on to his son (they've had a very rocky relationship over the years.) But I guess it just goes to show that blaming the ex-wife for ALL your woes and problems doesn't work forever with reasonable people.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4683 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

I'm seeing this late, and so glad it went well!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


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better4me
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Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

too late for mojo, but I see it went swimmingly. Happy it didn't give you hives!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3207 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

I'm so glad it went well, Tes


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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