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User Topic: OWhore is pregnant and it was Not an accident
FieldsOfLavender
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, August 15th (Thursday)

I know the pregnancy was NOT an accident bc I am familiar with the birth control practices of my STBX. OWhore has been wanting a baby from the beginning because her biological clock is ticking and she will be 40 in a few days. The current fetus will be born while STBX and I are still legally married.

While he still acknowledges his 8 yo child and cares for her, I feel like STBX has kicked his current family to the curb like yesterday's trash.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, August 15th (Thursday)

Oh, Lavender. I'm so very sorry. ((((lavender and 8 yo))))


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, August 15th (Thursday)

((((Fields))))


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, August 15th (Thursday)

(((FieldsOfLavender)))

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CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, August 15th (Thursday)

(((((((Fields)))))))

I'm also wishing massive shoe puking morning sickness on the Whore. For the ENTIRE pregnancy.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

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FieldsOfLavender
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Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, August 15th (Thursday)

I'm also wishing massive shoe puking morning sickness on the Whore. For the ENTIRE pregnancy.

Thank you, Cheatermagnet.

STBX emailed me the pregnancy news AFTER he told his family and our 8 yo child.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 11:47 PM, August 15th (Thursday)

EW. I'm sorry!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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FieldsOfLavender
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, August 15th (Thursday)

Despite the lying, denying, sex chats, physical affair, the door that led to the ray of hope slammed shut with this news. I have been wanting a 2nd child for so long and he kept putting me off with excuses of it's too expensive, I'm too old, world is over populated, etc. He even discussed the "pressure" I put on him during his fucking sex chats with Owhore.

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 12:43 AM, August 16th (Friday)

AFTER he told his family and our 8 yo child.

WHAAAT????

Divorce from this Douche will be a blessing!!!

Involving a child like that???

Speechless


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2979 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 12:45 AM, August 16th (Friday)

FOL, I'm so sorry. Dealing with an OC is a whole new pain entirely. You are right in feeling like you've been tossed aside like yesterday's trash. It is so sick that he is having a baby with another woman while you are still married to him. These men are just sick, sick, sick!

I have a feeling I will be in your shoes very soon. OW in my case also has a ticking biological clock and is desperate for a baby.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

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Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 6:19 AM, August 16th (Friday)

I am so sorry. I was ready to start a family with my ex and he had every excuse to wait... well, OW ended up pregnant. He said it was an accident, but she was claiming she was pregnant when she was less than 4 weeks along... who says that unless they are trying??

I am sorry...OC's are one of the worst things imaginable.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

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TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, August 16th (Friday)

Well I hope the bitch has quadupulets and they keep him awake for years to come and bleed his pockets dry. I am so sorry (((FOL)))


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

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TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, August 16th (Friday)

Well I hope the bitch has quadupulets and they keep him awake for years to come and bleed his pockets dry. I am so sorry (((FOL)))


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

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Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, August 16th (Friday)

I feel really bad for this new innocent life. It didn't ask for the life its going to be born into, or the idiot parents who will raise it.

((((Lavendar and 8 yo)))


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

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MelisssaZZZ
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Default  Posted: 7:44 AM, August 16th (Friday)

(((FOL agd 8yr old)))


Me BS - 37
WH 39
1 child - 5yrs
married 5 yrs, together 7
DD1 midmarch 09
DD2 early june 09
some more DD's of course - cannot bother to list
LTA (2 yrs) fully?? finished mid Aug 09
Status: Divorced Oct 2011

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Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, August 16th (Friday)

I'm really sorry, FOL.

I have a lot of empathy and sympathy, because I and others are suspicious that Nearly Exh has an OC but will not admit it. It's not something I can fathom having to cope with, besides the rest.

FWIW to share, sometimes I've thought that Nearly Exh doesn't think he's married anymore, like in his heart (clearly) and mind (distorted) (and has actually denied me by calling himself a widower while I am very much alive) and hasn't for some time, so I think that's how he was able to go through with his a.


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


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BeyondBreaking
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, August 16th (Friday)

(((((Lavender)))))

I hope she pukes all day, everyday for 9 months and gets bloated to the size of a helium parade balloon.


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


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Blackhair
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, August 16th (Friday)

(((Lavender)))
Sorry to hear what you are going through, trust me, they wont be together long, as once a cheater, always a cheater, get someone else pregnant when he is still married.it is SICK! OW deserves a miscarriage!


M: 10 years
DD:5 DS Twin: 2 yrs old
DDay: Earlier 2013, WS flew/met many times with a Philippine girl found online (20 yrs younger)
SA finalized 6 months after DD. divorcing...
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!

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FieldsOfLavender
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, August 16th (Friday)

Sorry to hear what you are going through, trust me, they wont be together long, as once a cheater, always a cheater, get someone else pregnant when he is still married.it is SICK! OW deserves a miscarriage!

Blackhair, are you sure it won't last? It's been 1.5 years since they met. STBX has told whore that he loved her 7 months ago. He also told me 7 months ago that he would not give her a baby.


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