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User Topic: Happy Anniversary....say what?
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 2:03 AM, August 16th (Friday)

There have been a lot of posts about anniversaries, and today happens to be mine. We are close to finalizing our dissolution paperwork yet he has the nerve to send me a text with "Happy Anniversary!" Uh yeah, asshole, it is really a happy event to be celebrated. I am jumping up and down with excitement over spending over 20 years with a lying cheating asshole. Miserable fucktwit.

Where do these pond scum low lifes get the nerve to send their BS anniversary felicitations like everything is fucking rainbows and flowers while putting a legal end to the very purpose of that occasion??

I don't get it, and he got crickets. Celebrate THAT asshole!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1093 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
HurtsButImOK
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Member # 38865
Default  Posted: 2:20 AM, August 16th (Friday)

I am seriously starting to think there must be a fuckwit gene that unremorseful WS' have. Hopefully they develop a test for this soon.

Sorry you had to deal with that. As if it isn't bad enough to have had your life blown up that they then also have to be clueless or cruel aholes about it just stings.


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 728 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 3:24 AM, August 16th (Friday)

Go do something nice for yourself! You deserve it! You kept your marriage vows. You survived with him up to this point.

I don't think my stbx will have the balls to tell me Happy Anniversary tomorrow. Or maybe he doesn't even remember. Whatevers!

My mom just asked me if I was going to burn something on my anniversary and I said "I did! I'm burning his initial (tattoo) off my body!"


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2193 | Registered: Oct 2012
ImNellNow
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Member # 28753
Default  Posted: 10:36 AM, August 16th (Friday)

Last year on the day after what would have been our 14th, Daffy said, "I just want to let you know that I didn't forget that yesterday would have been our anniversary." I made some polite noise, but I want to tell you all that *I* had totally forgotten it! I had been very busy getting ready for my first date with my now fiancé!

[This message edited by ImNellNow at 10:37 AM, August 16th (Friday)]


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

Posts: 2370 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Baby steps on my new path
chikastuff
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Member # 35288
Shutup  Posted: 11:19 AM, August 16th (Friday)

Mine sent me an edible arrangement with a "Happy Anniversary" balloon in the shape of a heart for the anniversary that fell during the time between filing and finalizing....


Me- 32
Happily engaged and moving on

Posts: 382 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: New England
PurpleRose
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Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, August 16th (Friday)

Well I sent the Dooosh a Happy Anniversary message last week for our 15th... By having my lawyer meet me at the court house to prove up our divorce decree in front of a judge!

I had to answer his questions "how long have you been married?"
15 years today your honor.
"Are you a legal resident of xxx County?"
Yes your honor.
"Is there any hope for reconciliation of this marriage?"
Not to this lying cheating man, your honor!!

yeah, happy anniversary indeed! I walked out of there on Cloud Freaking Nine!! Had a fabulous lunch date with a great friend, and snuggled with my beautiful kiddos that night!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3582 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
shiloe
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Member # 1224
Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, August 16th (Friday)

Yeah . . .crickets.

Although I probably would have replied with a Fu#K You too Asshat!


But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 54
Cheater -54
Married 26 yrs
DD - 21 DD -19 DS-17
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA with married ho-worker. Kicked him out, he filed

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