I decided to go anyway because even if he cant make it a priority to him its a priority to me
..this is YOUR mom, and you absolutely should go to see her.
..do NOT, under any circumstances, let your H talk, bully or manipulate you into changing your mind!!
he is trying to control you to suit his agenda..
..remind him, when you get back, that you SUPPORTED himfor a stinking hunting trip.... this is your mother, for heavens sake, and he should be completely supporting your efforts to visit her..
..glad to see that you have shown strength,determination and conviction in going to her side..
the money aspect will take care of itself somehow..
..sending good travel mojo to you and hope you find your mom in good health and spirits..