User Topic: Woowhoo - Doucheless!
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Happy  Posted: 1:51 AM, August 18th (Sunday)

I've just had the I'm beaming!!

I don't post about it much because I'm kind of embarrassed about it but since S the sad clown and I have lived in the same smurf village/apartment complex.

It is the only complex in the area that has all of the security and facilities I am after. He moved here to coerce me into moving in with him once the house was sold. He signed his lease during False R and spent weeks begging me to move in with him. I refused and signed my own lease shortly afterwards.

There are something like 15 low-rise buildings in the complex and his unit is about 100m (330 ft) away and overlooks mine (he is a few floors up, I'm on the ground floor).

For the last year I've kept my shades drawn at night and I've felt this ominous presence whenever I've looked out my windows. I've only used the pool/park a few times and I've never used the BBQ area because his balcony overlooks all of it. If I come home late at night (or early morning ) I go the long way because I don't want to even see his balcony let alone be see or be seen by him.

The payoff is that I haven't bumped into him once this entire year.

I was hoping he would move because I really don't want to.

Miss 5 told me they are getting bunk beds at daddy's new place. I think its a stupid idea given she'll need to climb down and back up again to do wees at night but I'm so freaking excited that he is finally moving that I could dance a jig.

I can finally enjoy this wonderful complex and all of its fabulous facilities. He will have no reason to be on my turf ever again except for the rare in-person handovers.

Bye bye douche, its been real. Don't come back now, y'hear!

[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 1:51 AM, August 18th (Sunday)]

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Default  Posted: 5:18 AM, August 18th (Sunday)


Doing the happy dance for you! It will be such a relief to no longer have to wonder if douche is spying.

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Default  Posted: 7:19 AM, August 18th (Sunday)

That's gotta be a HUGE load off. I'm happy for you!

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Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, August 18th (Sunday)


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, August 18th (Sunday)


When's the party?

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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, August 18th (Sunday)

You can call me NIK

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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, August 18th (Sunday)

Awesome news!! Do the happy dance!!

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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, August 18th (Sunday)

Great news!!!

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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, August 18th (Sunday)

Thanks all - I woke up this morning and yep, still beaming.

I guess you don't realise how yuck something really is until you realise you're going to be free of it. Kind of like that M, really.

I AM so having a party and you're all invited!

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, August 18th (Sunday)

You are one strong person to have made it that long with him so close!
Congrats and I'm so happy for you! Yay!! Good bye douche bag, and hello to you enjoying life your NB as you should!

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