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laney57
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Member # 35617
Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, August 18th (Sunday)

Spending many years in NJ, I have always HATED the word.. (Oh here goes) DoucheBag. I would cringe everytime I read it here on SI or heard people say it. I found myself today looking over at my WH "roommate" and screaming it in my head. Gosh, he is!!
Please let him get this job in another city or state far away!


Me - BS, 43
Him - WH, 45
Married - 22 years
D-Day - 05/12/2012
Trying to find me.
Gotta do this, but I'm broken - headed for divorce - 02/20
Hell if I know - 02/24
INS 07/2013 Divorcing

Posts: 226 | Registered: May 2012 | From: KY
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, August 18th (Sunday)

(((laney)))


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22516 | Registered: Aug 2011
soveryweary
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Member # 32265
Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, August 18th (Sunday)

Laney, are you doing in house separation too?
I totally get the screams in inside the head.
My gosh I surprise myself with what goes through my mind about him.
And I get a childish satisfaction giving him the finger when his back is turned!!!

[This message edited by soveryweary at 7:10 PM, August 18th (Sunday)]


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 579 | Registered: May 2011
PurpleRose
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Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 1:24 AM, August 19th (Monday)

Might want to steer clear of my posts then...


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3224 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: ATX
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 3:53 AM, August 19th (Monday)

((((Laney))))
I used to really hate that word too. But it is just so unfortunately appropriate.


ish kabibble

Posts: 4156 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
SBB
Member
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 4:41 AM, August 19th (Monday)

Your mind is G-rated. My mind drops the C-bomb.


Sending all of the love and strength I can muster to Phoenix1 and her family.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
laney57
Member
Member # 35617
Default  Posted: 6:52 AM, August 19th (Monday)

Thanks guys,
Ugh yesterday was rough... DD went back to school and I was able to myself a bit yesterday and focus on how long this past 2 months has been
@Weary, yes, I am. Miserable isn't it!! My haven is now a temp job, so atleast I have something to get away too. I do hope and pray he finds works soon. That is the only thing that is stopping us for moving forward and he is looking for out of state (I believe). See ya DB!!!
Take care everyone...
@Strong... That bomb has it own special "girl" for!!


Me - BS, 43
Him - WH, 45
Married - 22 years
D-Day - 05/12/2012
Trying to find me.
Gotta do this, but I'm broken - headed for divorce - 02/20
Hell if I know - 02/24
INS 07/2013 Divorcing

Posts: 226 | Registered: May 2012 | From: KY
Topic Posts: 7