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Housefulloflove
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Member # 38458
Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, August 18th (Sunday)

Pity-party that is.

Apparently he's dying...again.

He has to give me so much money. He's got bills! He can't afford gas. He can barely afford food

His horrible decisions are having negative consequences! How could that be??

I don't respond. I pretend a tiny violin is playing a sad song.


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
Strongmama
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Member # 33062
Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, August 18th (Sunday)

You are doing great! Good for you with that tiny violin:)) love it!
I love how these jerks think we're supposed to care or feel bad because they're ridiculous, and hurt us, and make bad decisions.
Sucks to suck; as my 15 year old told me...little did he know he was giving me a great line for his loser of a dad; actually, maybe he did. Sadly.
(((Housefulloflove))).

Posts: 662 | Registered: Aug 2011
newlysingle
Member
Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, August 18th (Sunday)

Seriously, these losers are all the same.

I have said in previous posts that my STBX rented a house with OW that had no pool fence. This is with two small children. So, the loser is now putting one up (and whining about the cost). He then asked me if I could go out to our shed and measure a pool fence that we have stored in our shed. It is in our shed, because it is broken and was left by the previous owner.

I informed that it was broken anyway (as he should remember) and that there was no way in hell I was going to go out in 113 degree weather to measure a fence for him because he opted to rent a home with his whore that didn't already have one. NOT MY PROBLEM! Come measure it yourself asshole.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 870 | Registered: Mar 2013
Housefulloflove
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Member # 38458
Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, August 18th (Sunday)

Sucks to suck; as my 15 year old told me..

I like that. It's so very true!

I love how these jerks think we're supposed to care or feel bad because they're ridiculous, and hurt us, and make bad decisions.

Exactly! They destroy lives and break hearts with their decisions and don't care. But oh no! Consequences are happening to THEM! How could we be so heartless and not care about the pain their decisions are causing THEM!?


I managed our finances for 10 years because he couldn't/wouldn't. Well he fired me from that job so tough-shit if he's failing financially. He won't get that it's his problem now! Who knows if his health is failing for real this time or if he's only desperately seeking pity but based on his track record I'm going to assume it's for pity.

I was on his side to the bitter end and he made sure it was THE END.


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
Housefulloflove
Member
Member # 38458
Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, August 18th (Sunday)

I informed that it was broken anyway (as he should remember) and that there was no way in hell I was going to go out in 113 degree weather to measure a fence for him because he opted to rent a home with his whore that didn't already have one. NOT MY PROBLEM! Come measure it yourself asshole.

What an absolute idiot! His head must be mighty far up his ass to think that you would want to help him AND her! I don't understand how they can feel so special that common sense conclusions like that shouldn't apply to them. They have to be the exception! He's so great that you have to want to be involved in some way, right?


That reminds me of a shitty thing my Ex asked for when I kicked him out. When he finally got an apartment he wanted his whore to move in with him and told me about it. Then he had a nerve to ask if I had any extra pots and pans to give him for the new place. MFer PLEASE! Why the hell would I give him pots and pans for his whore to use? If she wanted to play house with him it wasn't going to be with MY things!

I'm guessing he bought his own but who knows since he doesn't cook and the whore turned down his offer to move in before disappearing altogether.


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
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