User Topic: husband wants a separation
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Default  Posted: 12:11 AM, August 19th (Monday)

I was a serial cheater. I am not proud of it. I didn't know what real love and marriage meant. We have been trying to reconcile since March 2013. Now he wants to separate. He states he cannot get the pictures out of his head. He said he may date, but he rather me not. Besides I have been cheating all these years. That part really doesnt matter. I do not want to date during a separation. I read that people who date during a separation usually get a divorce. I know I do not deserve to still be married. I am lucky that he has given me 5 months. Has anyone reconciled after a separation with or without dating? I am terrified

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Default  Posted: 4:26 AM, August 19th (Monday)

I don't have too much advice because I was on the receiving side of infidelity and the betrayl.

I want to point you to the Wayward or General forum on SI. Members there have been a wayward some have R'd and some have D/S. I think you will get more responses if you posted there.

Good luck !

[This message edited by gma56 at 4:28 AM, August 19th (Monday)]

It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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