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confusedsad
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, August 19th (Monday)

My husband had an affair with someone at work. He is now starting a new job. I am really excited for him to be away from the last place. I was just wondering if I could get some ideas for boundaries and rules with the new environment. I want to tell him he can't talk to anyone, but his male boss, but I know that is not reasonable. ha ha Thanks.


Me- Betrayed - married 16 years
Him- 2 week affair with someone at work
9 kids
Trying to R

Posts: 35 | Registered: May 2013 | From: confusedsad
Skan
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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, August 19th (Monday)

Have the two of you read "Not Just Friends?" That would be a good place to start. For me, my rules are group lunches alone, no "alone" lunches with female co-workers.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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