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User Topic: Temporary Orders Came in today
brokenandconfuse
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Member # 39381
Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, August 20th (Tuesday)

Protection Order stays in place

He gets visitation every other weekend, no alcohol and no friends of his can have alcohol

I was awarded custody of kids, property, and vehicle

I have to pay $2500 toward his attorney fees and $1000 per month alimony. I think this is crap!!! He has a job. I can't help that he drank and F'd up his life. I shouldn't have to pay for it. We are going to fight this.

He has to pay me child support $350/ month for 3 kids. Meh...I couldn't care. I don't want his money. I don't want to ever see him again no less deal with him for anything.

He left all of his Facebook public and he is friends with all of his ex-AP's and addict friends. Mostly all women. I am hurt-but certainly not jealous. Sick, gross, and disgusting. I can't believe that I was married to this guy and that he hid all of this part of himself for so long. Good ridance!


2DS, 2DD
BS-Me 32
WH-Him 43
DDay-All 14 years of our relationship. 3PA's, 3 one night stands, and 6 EA's and still counting as we go. Gained enough strength to face it 11/2012

Getting Divorced


Posts: 101 | Registered: May 2013 | From: United States
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, August 20th (Tuesday)

I have to pay $2500 toward his attorney fees and $1000 per month alimony. I think this is crap!!! He has a job. I can't help that he drank and F'd up his life. I shouldn't have to pay for it. We are going to fight this. HELL NO! Everything else ...


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2270 | Registered: Oct 2012
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)

So the judge says that HE is worth more than all three of his kids? What a crock of shit!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4926 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
PurpleRose
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Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)

I am so confused! Why are you paying $1000 to him???

He gets more than your kids do in support??


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3612 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
brokenandconfuse
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Member # 39381
Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, August 23rd (Friday)

I have to pay him because I make so much more money than he does and he didn't work for 4 yrs because he was busy drinking and F'ing around.


2DS, 2DD
BS-Me 32
WH-Him 43
DDay-All 14 years of our relationship. 3PA's, 3 one night stands, and 6 EA's and still counting as we go. Gained enough strength to face it 11/2012

Getting Divorced


Posts: 101 | Registered: May 2013 | From: United States
Topic Posts: 5