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GabyBaby
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Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)

This didnt belong in Divorce/Separation and because it is infidelity relalated, I didnt want to put it in New Beginnings either.

It seems that my secret wish is coming to pass in just a few weeks.
I got an email from XWH that he is moving about 30 minutes away! Currently he lives about 2 blocks from my house.
We've always lived relatively close by for the kids' convenience, but they are both adults (or near enough).
Add to that, he never stays in one place very long, moving every couple of years.
It'll be wonderful to have "my" neighborhood to myself. Hubby and I bought a home here about 5 years ago, so we're not going anywhere (knock on wood).

As for visitation with DS (and dropping off at school etc), because I already knew of his habit of moving around, I had it written into our divorce decree that HE is responsible for travel if he chooses to move from the current 5 mile radius of son's legal home (my home).

Happy Dance!!!!!
Come on folks....boogie with me!


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - R looks possible..

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6380 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
krazy8516
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Member # 40076
Default  Posted: 1:21 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)

::happy dancing:: with ya!


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."


Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51956 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Jospehine85
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Member # 35971
Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)


Me - BS 40s
WH - 50s
4 Kids
Dday May 2012

Posts: 843 | Registered: Jun 2012
GabyBaby
Member
Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)

I already have a bottle of wine picked out. On the date of the final move-out, hubby and I are going to celebrate in style!


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - R looks possible..

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6380 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
WhatsRight
Member
Member # 35417
Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)

Loud hoots and hollars from me to you!


"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy


Posts: 1889 | Registered: Apr 2012
simplydevastated
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Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)

Awesome news!


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)

Woo hoo!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25073 | Registered: Aug 2011
nestlee
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Member # 39871
Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)

Awesome,


A woman needs a man..Like a fish needs a Bycicle.

Posts: 71 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Canada
Want To Wake Up
Member
Member # 31583
Default  Posted: 12:56 AM, August 21st (Wednesday)

Come on folks....boogie with me!

OK...


Me 50+
WH 50+ (SlowUptake)
DDay '09
Latest TT... Nov '13 (not a typo!)


One man’s “fruitless conflict” is another man’s “meaningful discussion”


Posts: 475 | Registered: Mar 2011
DeadMumWalking
Member
Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 2:46 AM, August 21st (Wednesday)

Woo HOOOOOOO!!!!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2559 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
NoTriangles
Member
Member # 35985
Default  Posted: 3:10 AM, August 21st (Wednesday)

WoooooHoooooo!!! I am totally doing the boogie woogie with you.

My ex-douchebag moved this spring. From 4 miles away to 40 miles away. I totally get how liberating it feels to reclaim your neighborhood.

I am so happy for you!!! Congrats!! Enjoy your freedom!!

[This message edited by NoTriangles at 3:11 AM, August 21st (Wednesday)]


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1251 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
lynnm1947
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Member # 15300
Default  Posted: 9:21 AM, August 21st (Wednesday)

I'll raise a glass and dance a jig!


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7180 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
GabyBaby
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Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, August 21st (Wednesday)

Want to Wake Up - That dancing smiley is AWESOME!!!

No Triangles - I read your post about your beach castle and where you are now vs. your ex and I cheered! Congrats to you as well!

Drinks for everyone! This round is on me!


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - R looks possible..

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6380 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Topic Posts: 14