I had a set back shortly after posting this.
We went to the grocery store, bumped into a mutual (woman) friend and were chatting. I saw another woman that my H knows from the gym. I don't like her. She pays attention to him and it's like I don't exist. Anyway she walked by us and intentionally "bumped" into my H. He said hi to her and turned back to us.
There is nothing between H and this woman. But it still upset me. I ended up writing how I felt about the encounter in an email to H and we discussed it. It feels so much better to talk it out. But man I hate that I need to!
Anyway, my theory on her, and H concurs, is that her behaviour IS inappropriate. She is trying constantly to get H's attention away from me. I'm pretty sure that's her way in general. She's cute and skinny and young(er).
:(. It makes so bummed that some bird brained bimbo can wreck my strong, happy day.