So yesterday, my STBXH had a video chat with our son. I guess at some point, the video showed my dresser which had my brand new flowers that Mr. Officer sent me since my son is only 2 and can't hold the camera straight for the whole 15 minutes.
So after their chat, my ex texts me "Hey, I saw flowers. Are you dating someone?" To which I didn't even respond. We aren't best friends dumb ass, don't worry about what I am doing.
I really wanted to respond with, "Does it matter, we are divorcing," but I figured no response is better than a response that he could bait me into a fight.
Me- Divorced! 12/4/13
"They cling to their bad choices out of shame, because it is far easier to continue to destroy yourself than to do the heavy work required to fix yourself." - a wiser SIer