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nekorb
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Content  Posted: 9:33 AM, August 21st (Wednesday)

Well,

I finally gave in to the urge to check up on my husband. I had really been trying not to as I'm trying to extend trust as well as not driving myself crazy over it and obsessing about it.

Anyway...I couldn't access the last email he used to contact OW, and when I tried to cover the password, it said the account had been deleted on the 18th.

So... I realize it doesn't mean he didn't create a new one....but he has been leaving his phone out, unattended, in plain view where I have access to it, gave it to me to look something up on the Internet a couple days ago....

...so I'm hopeful.

I'm still going to start trying some of the 180.... We will see....it's hard...I want to talk to him and start working things out so badly!

But...I'm praying for patience and guidance....


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, August 21st (Wednesday)

Are his behaviors creating an emotionally tense situation for you or do you feel that he is being genuine and trying to be open? If you feel that later then you might want to be cautious about doing the 180.

Sending mojo to you.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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