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better4me
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Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

Yep, that means what you think it means. I like him. I don't want to look for anyone else...he's doing the same. Still taking it one day at a time. Going slowly. Especially and purposely going slowly about not sleeping together until several more weeks go by. I want to know him better first...he says he wants to be careful not to mess this up...and is letting me set the pace. We've talked for an hour or so every night since we met. We met for coffee again today. I'm going on vacation for a week so we will see if absence makes the heart grow stronger. We'll see.

He still intrigues me...he's complex and interesting and self aware, communicates well and has a good sense of humor...

This one may be a keeper!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3010 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
inconnu
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Member # 24518
Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12124 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

I'm so happy for you.

Posts: 33855 | Registered: Mar 2011
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

*like*


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17144 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
cayc
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Member # 21964
Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3003 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
click4it
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Member # 209
Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

hey that's great! an online dating happy beginning story in the making?


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25509 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
persevere
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

That''s great news!


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4374 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
wildbananas
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Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 12:29 AM, August 22nd (Thursday)

A squee for b4me!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15360 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
She11ybeanz
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Member # 27457
Default  Posted: 7:13 AM, August 22nd (Thursday)

SQQUEEEEEEE!!!!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2710 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
movingforward13
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Member # 38405
Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, August 22nd (Thursday)

*yay*


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 636 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
lostmommy
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Member # 33440
Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)


*LIKE*


Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, August 23rd (Friday)


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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