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hangingontohope7
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Member # 20024
Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

I know that nothing STBXWH does should surprise me anymore but...

My kids told me that they met OW during their visit this week.

I can't even form words right now. I'm so furious and so sad.


Me: BW
DDay #1 Tried R
DDAY #2 Divorcing

Burn everything love then burn the ashes.


Posts: 247 | Registered: Jun 2008
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

((((holding & kids)))) I'm so sorry, honey.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24437 | Registered: Aug 2011
tryingagain74
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Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

I know how you feel.

Take care of yourself. I tried to be very kind to myself during that time. I also talked my loved ones' ears off, so I hope that you have someone that you can lean on IRL.

(((hanging)))


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3540 | Registered: Oct 2011
abigailadams
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Member # 37556
Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

It was really hard for me too when my DD met the OW a few weeks ago.

You will always be their Mom. You are irreplaceable.

(((((hangingontohope7)))))


Me BS 54
Him WS 51
Married 10 years together 13
DDay October 11, 2012

Posts: 134 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Brooklyn, NY
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

(((hangingontohope7 & kids)))

Posts: 33938 | Registered: Mar 2011
LadyQ
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Member # 32847
Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)

Oh, I feel your pain. X's cumdumpster has even moved to my town and enrolled her kids in my school. It's 30 minutes from where he lives. One is in my youngest daughter's grade. The principal assigned her to my daughter's homeroom knowing that this woman has filed false accusations against my son and verbally assaulted me on campus (she had to be dragged out of the office dropping all sorts of profanity on the way out).

This shit sandwich is really starting to taste bad.


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

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