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User Topic: And we're back to everything being my fault.
CheaterMagnet
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Member # 33581
Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

NOT surprised. Disappointed yes.

We had had a really productive talk where I felt like we actually heard each other for the first time in a long time. So, I started entertaining a sliver of hope again. MISTAKE!!!

I know people. I really, really do. I am doing the same thing we all do. I'm trying to hang on to that one sliver of hope that our asshats will change.

Not going to happen. I need to detach. I need NC. I am going to have to tell my DD that we just can't be friends yet. I need time to process this.

It stops when I say it stops. I need to say it stops.

NC NC NC NC NC NC NC


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 999 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

((((CM))))


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24437 | Registered: Aug 2011
Phoenix1
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Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

It seems like every time we hung our hopes on the thinnest of slivers, they end up burying it in our backs like a shard of broken glass...

I'm sorry. Hang in there.


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 978 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Gr8Lady
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Member # 36307
Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)

Ahh. I too we'll understand as I too am the recipient of "the blame game"

It has always been my fault....
Disgusting on many levels, but hear you.

Stay strong! You are so worth it!


BS: Me (63yo)
FWH: HIM (65yo) serial infidelities over past 35 years
OW: Many, most recent 1/2 his age
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2012 when I presented evidence, plus LTA with his friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over past year
So done,

Posts: 600 | Registered: Jul 2012
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