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PrincessPeach06
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Member # 39588
Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, August 22nd (Thursday)

I was doing ok until WS told me about an employee who is upset over a friends affair and it made me so angry!!!

Today I hate every selfish WS out there. I have said this before but affairs take selfishness to a WHOLE new level I am personally thankful I will never understand. To completely disregard your spouse, kids and marriage vows for what feels good at that moment is such a selfish cowardly thing to do. To completely DESTROY the person you claim to love the most without a second thought is just pure cruelty.

I wish my H had robbed a bank or gambled away our kids college funds - just about anything other than infidelity.


Me (BS): 35
Him (fWS): 36
Married 16 years 6 kids ages 15-6
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".


Posts: 299 | Registered: Jun 2013
2married2quit
Member
Member # 36555
Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, August 22nd (Thursday)

I know how you feel. You are not alone. It is injustice and emotional abuse. There's no doubt about it. However, if your spouse is willing to rebuild always look to the future with hope. without hope, we can't exist.

Hugs.


BS - Me 43 WS - Her 41
DDAY - June 2012 (found the texts)
DDAY2 - Next Day (found out who) EA
TT- till 9/2012 (some PA)
Married 20yrs. 2kids
Status: in careful R. Sometimes spinning our wheels

Posts: 1232 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA
PrincessPeach06
Member
Member # 39588
Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, August 22nd (Thursday)

Thankfully I have a wonderfully remorseful H who is doing all the work. That's why I hate this anger but the good days are slowly beginning to outnumber the bad ones.

The news of this other A just brought so much back up. Posting here seems to help me get it off my chest and feel better.


Me (BS): 35
Him (fWS): 36
Married 16 years 6 kids ages 15-6
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".


Posts: 299 | Registered: Jun 2013
Topic Posts: 3