Topic: The stuff you learn from the kids.
Member # 30853
| Posted: 9:02 AM, August 22nd (Thursday)|
Boy. If I didn't have kids with him, I would know virtually nothing about him, except that he's a cheater, liar and giant ass.
The kids though, they keep me informed. Not informed of details of their father and OW. Nothing like that. I barely ask anything, but they like to tell their tales of life over there and the things that I learn about the "paradise" that these two numb nuts have created are priceless.
The latest? Dad didn't have time to do much with us this weekend because he was busy doing all the laundry. The dryer doesn't work so he has to hang all the clothes outside. Nice! One of the cheapest things to replace when it comes to major appliances and they haven't been able to do it.
Also, slunt bag apparently is without a car now. They tell me it broke. She's been driving to work with ex and had to ride her bike to run errands over the weekend. Problem is, he's not a nine to fiver like she is. His schedule sucks and often calls him to out lying towns late in the afternoon. I can just picture OW having to take the bus back home since everyone in their office still hates her guts and would never do her or him any kind of favor.
Amazing. She thought she got a real prize. The problem is, he was way more of a prize when he had full access to my salary. He was way more of a big shot then when he could steal right out from under my nose to host happy hours and dinners and go on vacations that I was told were work related.
I don't think this is karma anymore. I think it's honestly just the natural consequences of some really bad life decisions and the coming together of two people who are too stupid to blow their own noses between them.
I've said it before and I will say it again - its like he's getting pecked to death by a big slutty chicken. They live together, work together and now drive everywhere together. Peck, peck, peck.
BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.
Posts: 2208 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 35229
| Posted: 9:17 AM, August 22nd (Thursday)|
Peck, peck, peck.
“If things start happening, don't worry, don't stew, just go right along and you'll start happening too.” -Dr Seuss
Posts: 3598 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 34533
| Posted: 11:00 AM, August 22nd (Thursday)|
Where is the like button!
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged to OW#3
The darkest places in hell are reserved for those who maintain their neutrality in times of moral crisis. - Dante Alighieri
Posts: 458 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
Member # 26928
| Posted: 11:04 AM, August 22nd (Thursday)|
Starts singing the commercial jingle, "I feel like chicken tonight, like chicken tonight...".
Me - 41
My Rockstar (Hubs #2) - 46, faithful, & an absolute doll!
DD(20) and DS(17, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs and 2 Cats)
The Usual Suspects:
XWH (serial cheater with 12+ OW. Undiagnosed SA?)
Note: I edit often for typos/c
Posts: 4662 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: United States
Member # 38928
| Posted: 12:28 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)|
The problem is, he was way more of a prize when he had full access to my salary.
Same here! When I cut him off financially he threw and absolutely hissy (before he left) about me being a control freak. I guess if you count me protecting my money from being spent on his ho bags, then yeah, I am guilty as charged!
BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs, started 1994 - never stopped
3 kids - 22, 20, 17
M Dissolved 10/18/13!!!
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man, ~ Shakespeare
Posts: 614 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of hell's ashes!
Member # 38405
| Posted: 1:23 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)|
Me- Divorced! 12/4/13
"They cling to their bad choices out of shame, because it is far easier to continue to destroy yourself than to do the heavy work required to fix yourself." - a wiser SIer
Posts: 399 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Northeast US
Member # 35812
| Posted: 6:52 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)|
Rats, tried to post a photo of Camilla, the Muppet Chicken. Didn''t work so well.
[This message edited by Skan at 6:53 PM, August 22nd, 2013 (Thursday)]
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 2984 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 32554
| Posted: 7:07 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)|
Here you go, Skan!
[This message edited by Nature_Girl at 7:08 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)]
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED YOU, YOU SON OF A BITCH!
Posts: 7357 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Member # 34525
| Posted: 10:56 PM, August 23rd (Friday)|
suckstobeme, it really DOESN'T suck to be you!
Love that the natural consequences are happening!
BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Posts: 822 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
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