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User Topic: Is it normal?
Member # 40060
Question  Posted: 8:54 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)

It's coming up on 1 month since dday.
I don't ever have mind movies, images, etc about him and OW.
I don't really have triggers except maybe him being on facebook (that little green dot) it drives me crazy wondering who he is chatting with.
I am somewhat obsessed with checking to see if he's on line. Especially since he is out of town right now.
He's been texting me daily and calling at times.
We start our MC the day after he gets back from his trip.
So is it normal not to have any images/mind movies of him w/the OW? Could I be burying it deep inside becasue I don't want to imagine?

If you don't want me at my worst, maybe I won't need you at my best.
DDAY 1 - not sure but it was July, Aug or Sept 2010 (supposed bj from hooker)
DDAY 2 - 7-22-2013 she was the made up hooker

Posts: 99 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: IL
Member # 10468
Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)

I didn't have mind movies either. I did have triggers pretty bad but I didn't picture him with any of the ow's very often. Maybe because I never saw pictures or caught them. If you aren't having them I say enjoy it.

Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)

Posts: 6139 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Florida
Member # 40184
Default  Posted: 11:37 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)

I think that each one of us deals with this in a different way....myself I had mind movies something terrible just after the first and second D day now I see to have moved past those but have little things that are triggering me, I don't know how long they will last or if it will be an issue forever. Either way each of our situations is different therefore the way we deal with things will be different.

1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 25 years....finally in R

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