User Topic: Interesting realization
Member # 30119
Content  Posted: 1:34 PM, August 24th (Saturday)

I realized I can't remember all the dates anymore. I questioned which year D-day happened until somehow, I remembered the date.

I couldn't remember the names of the OPs other than first names.

I am completely okay with this.

While I will never forget what has happened, I am really happy with where we are at. We've had a few ups and down but we have worked through them together.

I'm just happy with where I am in life

BGF (me)- 24
FWBF (him)- 24
in a LTR

forgiven and in R :)

"To err is human.
To forgive,

Posts: 956 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Houston, TX
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, August 24th (Saturday)

Your post made me smile. I'm glad to hear your healing and R are going well.

Posts: 30600 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 12802
Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, August 24th (Saturday)

Hey you, would you help me to carry the stone ...

Posts: 14747 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, August 24th (Saturday)

Curiouse, when was your D day?

Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 184 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
Member # 30119
Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, August 24th (Saturday)

Wow, I was wrong about the date! I thought it was Nov 7, 2011 but it was Nov 7, 2010!

Goes to show that I still didn't remember LOL oops

BGF (me)- 24
FWBF (him)- 24
in a LTR

forgiven and in R :)

"To err is human.
To forgive,

Posts: 956 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Houston, TX
Member # 37362
Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, August 24th (Saturday)

OMG!!! Thats so great!!! Thanks for such a wonderful update..

WW: 28 (ME)
BH: 28 (SI profile: CrappyLife)
D-Day- 15/10/12

Posts: 334 | Registered: Nov 2012
Member # 40133
Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, August 24th (Saturday)

That is wonderful that you are starting to forget the details! I hope to someday be in your shoes. :)

Me: 31
WH (1DumbHusband): 34
Married 4 years, together 6 years.
D-Day: June 17th, 2013
TTs that came out as late as September 16th, 2013

Posts: 136 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Dallas, TX
Member # 21886
Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, August 24th (Saturday)

Congrats on the memory problems. Just goes to show that forgetting can sometimes be a *good* thing.

BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49

All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.

Posts: 5832 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, August 24th (Saturday)

Hey, poopy, great to hear from you! Happy that things are going well for you. Very cool you can't remember the dates.

I still find myself saying "oh, poopylala" when I need to swear but don't want to. (around grandson) You are in my thoughts a lot.

BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 8947 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, August 24th (Saturday)

Thank you!! I really needed to hear that today!!! CONGRATS..

Me 40
Him 5
Dday June 20/23 2013

Posts: 14 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Tinker01
Member # 30119
Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, August 24th (Saturday)

Oh Sister, you always make me smile! I'm sorry I haven't been on here in forever! I have been so busy with life which is both good and bad I suppose.

I know not everyone heals at the same rate but I really wish everyone had my "memory problem" because it really is freeing. (((Hugs))) to you all!

BGF (me)- 24
FWBF (him)- 24
in a LTR

forgiven and in R :)

"To err is human.
To forgive,

Posts: 956 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Houston, TX
Member # 15902
Default  Posted: 1:16 AM, August 25th (Sunday)

I couldn't remember the names of the OPs other than first names.

I'm so happy for you. I remember the first time I forgot OM's last name. Brought a smile to my face.

Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 29 years, Happily Reconciled

Posts: 5613 | Registered: Aug 2007
Member # 40078
Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, August 25th (Sunday)

I'm happy for you. I hope to be there someday, but first I have to be convinced my WH is being faithful to me.

He says it's over with OW. I'm having doubts about that, but can't find any proof.

D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50
WH 52
last broken NC 7/2013 (hopefully)
Married 29 years
2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?

Posts: 268 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
Member # 29461
Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, August 25th (Sunday)

Congrats on the memory problems.  

congrats. Today would be my 3 year anti but I think I'm OK with that. I noticed a few days ago it was coming up but I think it was this post that connected it today. I haven't been dwelling on things like I did last year. I'm happy that things have settled down for both of us

me - tsol, that's all for now

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