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Afraid2LoveAgain
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Member # 11185
Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, August 25th (Sunday)

Yesterday afternoon, Un-ex and I went to a music festival and had a wonderful, glorious day. We shagged (for the UK members that is a DANCE) all afternoon. Even though alcohol was sold at the venue , the strongest drink either of us had was sweet tea.

We headed back to my house a little after 7. Un-ex was in front of me in his truck on a four-lane highway. A car made a left turn, directly into him. I watched as he tried to steer out of it, the car hit him, he became airborne and came back down doing a 180, facing south instead of north now with traffic coming at him head on.

He's pretty sore this morning. Truck is totalled. People were amazing, stopping to help, staying to be witnesses to the police officer.

Point of my story--as I watched him being hit and going airborne, I was praying, "God, please don't let him flip." Since I'm an atheist, I don't know if words like that have ever come out of my mouth before. Watching the man I love and adore be in such a terrible wreck, drove home how lucky both of us are to have found our way back to each other. I do love him with all the depth and breadth of my soul.

Thankfully no humans were hurt in the wreck--only the vehicles. He loved that truck but there are other trucks to be had.

He has been asking me to re-marry him for years. When we got home last night, I went to my dresser, took our the ringbox that he tried to give me over three years ago. I handed it to him and he got down on one knee and proposed. I said yes.


BW -- 57
Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary

Posts: 420 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: NC
bionicgal
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Member # 39803
Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, August 25th (Sunday)

I cried! What a great story. Blessings to you, and I am glad you found your way back to one another.


me - BS (40s)
DDay - June 2013, A was 2+ months, EA then PA
In MC & Reconciling
An affair is more like a mental break than a relationship.

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Posts: 1957 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, August 25th (Sunday)

How scary! I'm glad he is ok.

Congrats! It's wonderful to read such a happy, heart touching post. I'm so happy for you both.


Posts: 35192 | Registered: Mar 2011
HardenMyHeart
Member
Member # 15902
Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, August 25th (Sunday)

I am so happy for both of you!


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5651 | Registered: Aug 2007
Flatlined123
Member
Member # 35862
Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, August 25th (Sunday)

What a great thing to happen out of such an awful thing! We need to count our blessings everyday.


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 670 | Registered: Jun 2012
StillStanding1
Member
Member # 40144
Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, August 25th (Sunday)

What a beautiful end to a scary story! Congratulations to both of you! Glad he is okay!!!!


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 678 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
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