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Tred
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, August 26th (Monday)

MH might need to work on his translator, looks like Ashley Madison is opening up in Hong Kong. In the article talking about it, the AM owner Noel Biderman spouted this gem:

"There really is a negative impact in separating a family, there is no corresponding negative impact to an undiscovered affair...The vast majority of people that have affairs, especially on our service, never get discovered."

Yeah dickhead, but every affair has an impact on a marriage and family, whether or not it gets discovered.

I saw the story on Yahoo news if you want to look it up.


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, August 26th (Monday)

I so want Mr. Biderman's wife to cheat on him. And for him to find out. I hope that she cheats through Ashley Madison, too. Please, please, please, pretty please with sugar on top cheat Mrs. Biderman.

I also hope there is a special pit in a hell reserved just for him. What. A. Douche.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, August 26th (Monday)

NO xie xie, AM.


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, August 26th (Monday)

I so want Mr. Biderman's wife to cheat on him. And for him to find out. I hope that she cheats through Ashley Madison, too. Please, please, please, pretty please with sugar on top cheat Mrs. Biderman.

Wouldn't that be poetic justice SMS?


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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, August 26th (Monday)

There are simply no words that can describe the disgust I have for that man.


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Married 33 years
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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, August 26th (Monday)

Wouldn't that be poetic justice SMS?
Yep!

I was thinking some more, Tred, about the Biderman's. What level of trust do you feel they have in their marriage?

IDK, they are just like us. Humans. Many of us were very naive and didn't believe that our spouse's would ever cheat. Maybe the Biderman's don't expect sexual fidelity from each other, they just don't want to know about it. However, if they do expect sexual fidelity from each other, I wonder what their trust level is.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, August 26th (Monday)

You mean Cantonese of course.......

And as for Biderman: and

Not only did most of us not expect our spouses to cheat, how many of us could have imagined the pain of it once it did happen? It's pretty easy to be 'philosophical' about it when it hasn't happened to you.


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, August 26th (Monday)

No real dialect in written Chinese. New idioms in one section of China are probably different from the new idioms in other sections, but that's about it.

There's a major difference in the complexity of written characters between pre- and post-Communist China, but that's a different matter.

Man, I hate it when they change the rules in the middle.

WRT Biderman - impotence not amenable to treatment by ED med, coupled with very bad investments, coupled with his W leaving him on moral grounds.

[This message edited by sisoon at 2:43 PM, August 26th (Monday)]


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, August 26th (Monday)

You mean Cantonese

Maybe. I believe they are fundamentally the same language - I've heard it described as the difference between American English and British English. I think it's written the same way, just spoken with a different dialect. But, I'm no expert . Didn't even stay a t a Holiday Inn Express....

SMS, I have to question what kind of woman wants to be married to him...I don't know much about his wife at all. He's just pure slime from what I can tell. Anything to make a buck. Maybe they have a marriage of convenience. If I was him I'd be more concerned that someday a betrayed spouse who was bitten by AM might end up venting directly to him to show their displeasure. People who have been traumatized do crazy shit.


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