WW had a 9 month PA before I found out. And is now continuing to have the affair and is running for the hills. So, obviously complete destruction of trust.
But what I really want to talk about is the scum of all humanity.
1) One of her friends (male), who I was on great terms with and also considered friend found out about the affair before I did and said NOTHING to me.
2) We work at the same company different departments. People in her department figured out what was going on before I did and said NOTHING to me.
3) My MIL, FIL, and brother in law took her side, as if there were even sides to be taken... I didn't do anything. In fact I was an awesome husband. They don't even want to talk to me about our kids. @ssholes.
4) My friends and family, the ones I confided in, turned around and told my extended family when I specifically asked them not to. WTF. As if my trust in people wasn't already shattered.
5) My Dad's 2nd marriage wife (who is a piece of work), is telling my WW that I am 50% responsible for the affair and that if it feels good to her she should keep doing it and leave me. B1tch, way to show your true colors.
6) The OM's wife found out before I did. She harassed my WW, but never contacted me to tell me what was going on.
Friends, Family, Coworkers... everyone is scum. No one had the balls to tell me what was going on. And when I shared it with those that didn't know, they abused my trust by telling others or taking the WW side.
Forget trusting another lover ever again - how the hell am I supposed to trust PEOPLE. Stick me in the loony bin.