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User Topic: Saw OW today, but what did she really get?
homewrecked2011
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Member # 34678
Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)

OW pulls in Walmart same time I do and parks across from me. DOn't know if she saw me at first or not. She acts so smug. But then, I thought,, what did she really get and what did I get?

She gets a cheating 48 year old sick porn freak whose dick only works with medication from using it too much watching that stuff. He looks old and scaly. He is always drinking and smoking cigarettes. I suspect he is a cross dresser and frequents topless bars. They both left their nice homes (hers 250,000) to move into a rental mobile home with her mother her 2 kids and her dog.

What did I get? My children's laughter, saxophone and trumpet playing in the evenings, their laughter on vacations, helping them with homework, hugging them when they are sick. I got the house, but really I got the home and family.

So kiss my a** OW.


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2204 | Registered: Jan 2012
Lalagirl
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Member # 14576
Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)

Good for you!!

I like happy endings.

Had to slightly t/j though...

WTF is up with seeing OW at friggin WalMart? xOW lives in the same neighborhood as us and I didn't have the "pleasure" of running into her for 3 years and when I do...it's in a WalMart parking lot! ...


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS & 20 mo. and 2 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 5073 | Registered: May 2007
Ashland13
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Member # 38378
Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)

This is where I am trying to get to...thank you for the inspiration.

The comparisons do help in some ways, for I do them too.


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2287 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
sleepless34
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Member # 40274
Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)

That is awesome. Good for you. She is a Trailer park HO and she has some old perv dude. They both have nothing.

You WIN!!!! YEAH!


Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

Posts: 443 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
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