SurvivingInfidelity.com Forums
Divorce/Separation
User Topic: The group isn't kicking me out!
kg201
Member
Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)

I had my monthly cancer care-givers support group this evening. I told them my story about my wife's infidelity, and how her decision to stay with the OM has forced me to stop providing her the care that a husband would a sick spouse.

My group is not kicking me out despite my new status as a cancer non-care giver. It is a good group and I felt supported this evening.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
---------------------------------
"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 699 | Registered: Aug 2013
MovingUpward
Guide
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)

That's good to hear.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52211 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
devistatedmom
Member
Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)

That's so night kg. They know you are a caring individual, they want to support you through this, while you help others with the cancer care. They sound like a wonderful group.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5496 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
nowiknow23
Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25382 | Registered: Aug 2011
Topic Posts: 4