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User Topic: 10 yr anniversary, 31st bday, & in laws moving back
Averyhurtgirl
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Default  Posted: 11:34 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)

This Labor Day weekend is going to be a hard one!!!

My what would have been 10 year wedding anniversary is on Saturday, then 31st birthday on Sunday, then my horrible ex in laws are moving back into town on Monday! On top of that, my BS is going out of town while I will be moving boxes out of our home.

What a horrible weekend to look forward too!

Its hard to see that our other friends who got married the summer that I did now have three kids, happily married, stable husbands, and going on great vacations for their 10 year anniversary.

It has also been hard because I have been feeling very lonely and now feeling ready for a relationship again.


Posts: 49 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Oregan
click4it
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Member # 209
Default  Posted: 11:37 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)

(((avery)))

Try to do something nice for yourself this weekend, even if its just for a few moments. All my friends pre-dday are also still married. I'm the only one. So, I know how that feels. I'm a lot further out than you are, but I remember how difficult it was to deal with anti-versaries, ex-inlaws, etc.

We are here if you need to talk.


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25628 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)

Let me get this straight....your marriage is breaking up because you cheated? Or did I read this wrong?


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7281 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
Averyhurtgirl
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Member # 37762
Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)

No he cheated on me for 5 years but what is worse is that he blamed it all on me, saying I verbally abused him etc.

Posts: 49 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Oregan
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, August 29th (Thursday)

I think there is confusion because you said your BS is going out of town. Who is your BS if you're the Betrayed Spouse?

I hope you can find some time for fun this weekend. It's a lot happening at once.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4202 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
lynnm1947
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Member # 15300
Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

Yes, that was my confusion, little turtle.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7281 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
Averyhurtgirl
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, August 30th (Friday)

used the terminology wrong. I am the BS he cheated on me.

Posts: 49 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Oregan
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