I might have missed an article but there is a thread in JFO that is about this topic.
Here is a link to that thread.
As maybe this is what you were searching for or where the article isAKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum