Member # 37091
| Posted: 4:10 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)|
Sorry I went silent past couple days. I was trying to come to terms with the fact that its really over. One of my 2 BFF's has decided she wants me to live with her. That makes apartment hunting over and I'm more then happy to be her roommate. Getting my ducks in a row here. SO (can't quite put the ex in front yet) and I have been getting along amazingly and he's actually getting his shit together. Hes looking for a place too, too many memories here. I'll keep you guys updated.
FWGF/BGF-me, BBF/WBF-Him, MH's Together 10 yrs
Both had DDays and TT
Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.
Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.
Posts: 2274 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 32753
| Posted: 4:15 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)|
You're doing good and it sounds like you're getting the support you need from your BFFs. It'll be hard, but keep going. You can do it.
Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Posts: 3706 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Member # 31528
| Posted: 6:38 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)|
Posts: 29502 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 18449
| Posted: 6:43 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)|
I'm wishing you well in this next chapter of your life. I'm kind-of excited for you!
Posts: 10779 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
Member # 36684
| Posted: 6:48 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)|
Thanks for the update!
I've been wondering how you were doing.
Sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted it to.
FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 (chicho)
Together 7 years
"Your secrets keep you sick"
Posts: 1083 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Hoth
Member # 33886
| Posted: 11:50 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)|
Been thinking about you.
Me - FWW
Him - QuietStand
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway."
Posts: 5264 | Registered: Nov 2011
Member # 40076
| Posted: 3:47 PM, August 29th (Thursday)|
Was wondering where you were - almost sent you a PM but thought you might be taking some "time off" from SI...
I'm glad you found a place. Now you just need to find somebody more deserving of your awesome self. Not right away, of course...
me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day
married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m
"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."
Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
Member # 27303
| Posted: 9:05 PM, August 29th (Thursday)|
Hang in there
You are stronger than you think you are
Me-41 FWW Him-44BH
M 13years. Reconciled.
DDay#1 Nov 2008 (OM2)
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Confessed to OM 2001)
"The only thing permanent is change." Dr Charles Mayo,1930
Posts: 1931 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The SouthEast
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