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User Topic: Update
Member # 37091
Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)

Sorry I went silent past couple days. I was trying to come to terms with the fact that its really over. One of my 2 BFF's has decided she wants me to live with her. That makes apartment hunting over and I'm more then happy to be her roommate. Getting my ducks in a row here. SO (can't quite put the ex in front yet) and I have been getting along amazingly and he's actually getting his shit together. Hes looking for a place too, too many memories here. I'll keep you guys updated.

Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."

Posts: 2762 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 32753
Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)


You're doing good and it sounds like you're getting the support you need from your BFFs. It'll be hard, but keep going. You can do it.

Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 3905 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)


Posts: 35933 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 18449
Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)


I'm wishing you well in this next chapter of your life. I'm kind-of excited for you!

Posts: 11754 | Registered: Mar 2008
Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)

Thanks for the update!

I've been wondering how you were doing.

Sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted it to.

FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children

"Your secrets keep you sick"

Posts: 1134 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 11:50 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)

Been thinking about you.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

Posts: 6317 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Member # 40076
Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

Was wondering where you were - almost sent you a PM but thought you might be taking some "time off" from SI...

I'm glad you found a place. Now you just need to find somebody more deserving of your awesome self. Not right away, of course...


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."

Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
Mrs Panda
Member # 27303
Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

Hang in there
You are stronger than you think you are

Me-41 FWW Him-45BH
M 13years. Reconciled.
DDay#1 Nov 2008 (OM2)
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Confessed to OM 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut

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