Just Found Out
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Member # 40131
Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, August 29th (Thursday)

Since my WH is now out of the house and staying in my parent's guesthouse I'm sure he has a lot of free time. If I remember correctly, there is no TV in there. Anyway, I was trying to think of some books to send his way to help him realize what he's done, the depth of what he's done and how to start fixing it. I am not sure that I want to point him in the direction of this website. I don't really want him to have access to my posts.


Posts: 80 | Registered: Jul 2013
Member # 39588
Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, August 29th (Thursday)

"How to help your spouse heal from your affair" really helped my WS and its not a long book at all.

Me (BS): 35
Him (fWS): 36
Married 16 years 6 kids ages 15-6
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".

Posts: 299 | Registered: Jun 2013
Member # 40298
Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

I was thinking that one, too. I've seen people mention it on here, and I was thinking of ordering it for my WH as well.

Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

Posts: 379 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 40330
Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

The Heal Library has a link for books. You could go through and get an idea of which ones you think would benefit your WS and share them with him, without sharing links that would refer you back to the website. I do believe amazon has most of the books. You may check your local library as well!

DD 1: PA 12/4/09 He spent 2.5 years with OW1
R: 8/31/2012
DD 2: EA 8/16/13
BS: 26
WH: 25
1 young daughter.
Terribly disgusted. He refuses to give up his "friend". Headed towards D.

Posts: 136 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: kentucky
Member # 39996
Default  Posted: 2:05 AM, August 30th (Friday)


The best book I have read is" after the affair, by Janice Abrahms. You should both read it


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
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