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dbellanon
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Member # 39236
Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

Divorce papers were filed with the court on Wednesday. WW (can I start calling her XWW now?) moves out permanently on Sunday. I am so close, I can taste it. Considering how hard I fought it, I never thought I would be craving this divorce so much, but I since I know it has to happen, I just can't wait to get it behind me so that I can start building my new life.

One-by-one, the pieces are falling into place. Now all I need is a job...


ME: BH, 28
Her: WW, 27
DD: 4
Married 6 Years.
DDay: Early May, 2013
Divorced

Posts: 207 | Registered: May 2013
gma56
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

I never thought I would be craving this divorce so much
I was the same, it couldn't get over with fast enough once I was DONE !

For you ! Just copy and paste.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4emYaDbaJ8w

Good luck job hunting !!!!
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

Posts: 20323 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

Aacckk ... I'm so jealous but excited that another D/S friend is about to start their new beginning!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2117 | Registered: Oct 2012
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

gma - I love that song too!

Good for you dbell. And you are building your new life now - you're already moving forward instead of staying in limbo.

When I first joined SI, I used to get confused about XWW or XWH. I always found myself wondering if it meant they are no longer wayward or if it meant they are an ex-spouse or if they can't be wayward anymore because they are an X. Yes, my brain was soup in those days.

I think you can call her any old thing you want. I always liked STBX. After it's final, simply X or XW.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

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