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dbellanon
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Member # 39236
Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

Divorce papers were filed with the court on Wednesday. WW (can I start calling her XWW now?) moves out permanently on Sunday. I am so close, I can taste it. Considering how hard I fought it, I never thought I would be craving this divorce so much, but I since I know it has to happen, I just can't wait to get it behind me so that I can start building my new life.

One-by-one, the pieces are falling into place. Now all I need is a job...


ME: BH, 28
Her: WW, 27
DD: 4
Married 6 Years.
DDay: Early May, 2013
Divorced

Posts: 218 | Registered: May 2013
gma56
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

I never thought I would be craving this divorce so much
I was the same, it couldn't get over with fast enough once I was DONE !

For you ! Just copy and paste.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4emYaDbaJ8w

Good luck job hunting !!!!
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20371 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

Aacckk ... I'm so jealous but excited that another D/S friend is about to start their new beginning!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2191 | Registered: Oct 2012
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

gma - I love that song too!

Good for you dbell. And you are building your new life now - you're already moving forward instead of staying in limbo.

When I first joined SI, I used to get confused about XWW or XWH. I always found myself wondering if it meant they are no longer wayward or if it meant they are an ex-spouse or if they can't be wayward anymore because they are an X. Yes, my brain was soup in those days.

I think you can call her any old thing you want. I always liked STBX. After it's final, simply X or XW.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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