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inhishands55
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Default  Posted: 11:18 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

I had to put my kitty with breast cancer down today...She hadn't eaten since Tuesday and her white count had went from 87000 to 107000...The fluid was building up around her heart and lungs and was full of cancer cells..

She had her first surgery for breast cancer last September and then again in January..She was only 11..She purred to the end..She didn't suffer..That was what was important to me...I lost one more furbaby...The second one in 9 months...


Posts: 408 | Registered: Jan 2006 | From: The Tarheel State, in the mts.
lostworld
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Default  Posted: 11:42 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

I'm so sorry; it hurts so much. I'm glad you can find a little comfort that she didn't suffer. (((inhishands55)))


Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married 30 yrs. w/ 2 grown kids
Dday 1: Very early 2007
Dday 2: Mid 2008 (same MOW, 14 month false R)
R'd
The affair was the aberration, not the marriage or the man.

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aesir
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Default  Posted: 11:44 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

So sorry to hear of this.
Always so hard to know what to do and when with our beloved pets.


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 12:15 AM, August 30th (Friday)

(((inhishands55)))

I'm so sorry.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 12:29 AM, August 30th (Friday)

I'm so sorry. So very sorry. ((((HUGS)))) If there is a kitty afterlife, perhaps some of my kitties will welcome your girl & show her the best spots.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9472 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
inhishands55
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Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, August 30th (Friday)

I believe there is a place for our precious kitties...I told my little girl to go and find her brothers who had went before her...Gave her lots of hugs and kisses and tears before she left...She had always give me sugar on the forehead and would try and nip at my nose to give me love kisses too..

Thanks for all the hugs and wonderful thoughts..I will greatly miss my precious little girl..


Posts: 408 | Registered: Jan 2006 | From: The Tarheel State, in the mts.
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:51 AM, August 30th (Friday)

I'm so sorry for the loss of your kitty.


Take up your space (and do it well).

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:54 AM, August 30th (Friday)

((((inhishands)))) I'm so sorry.


You can call me NIK

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, August 30th (Friday)

(((inhishands)))

I'm so sorry for your loss.


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, August 30th (Friday)

((BIGHUGZ)) I know how hard this is! I am so sorry!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2716 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
tryinghard2013
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, August 30th (Friday)

I'm so sorry our furrier babies give us so much love I too believe there is a Kitty heaven

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, August 30th (Friday)

(((((inhishands)))))

Wishing you peace.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 6:56 PM, August 30th (Friday)

(((inhishands55)))

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious kitty.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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Posts: 24416 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
toonces
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, August 30th (Friday)

sorry for your loss.

Just a couple of weeks ago, we lost one of our 4 cats. Even though we still have 3 left, the house feels "empty".

We still have the sister of the one that died, so we see a little of our former cat in her.


Me - BS
Her - WS
affair length - 6 months with MM
married since 7/92
d-day 4/2002
NC violated 4/02, 6/02, 8/02

Posts: 135 | Registered: Oct 2009 | From: Massachusetts
inhishands55
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Member # 9454
Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, August 30th (Friday)

My other little girl, who stayed in the house with my cancer kitty is missing her sister really bad..Before she died Yzma taught the other kitty to sleep on my pillow above my head..The other kitty, Flaming Jane is now trying to lay all over me and seeking comfort by being close to me..I still have 3 tom kitties and now only 1 girl...They are so individual and have such different personalities....

I have had several good cries today over my Yzma being gone...I will miss that little girl for a long time...


Posts: 408 | Registered: Jan 2006 | From: The Tarheel State, in the mts.
click4it
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Default  Posted: 11:34 PM, August 30th (Friday)

(((inish))))

Sorry for your loss.


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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