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User Topic: How to deal with these emotions on top of real life
broken0912
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Member # 39780
Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, August 30th (Friday)

It has been a year and I find myself wanting to shut down. I have so much regular "life" crap that I can't do or can't find the stuff to do it and all I want to do is get in bed and pull the covers over my head. How do you get through the day to day, and handle the emotions that continuously rush through you, not knowing what will hit you next?


BS 49
WS 61
OW 31 now - 23-24 when it began
dday-9/4/12
M 13+ together 16
HIS DC: D-33,S-25,S-22
MINE: 0 -he was too old to have C at 44, but had OC at 57
LTA: EA 1-2yr then 1.5 after pa end
LTA: PA 3.5-4 yrs

Posts: 95 | Registered: Jul 2013
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, August 30th (Friday)

((broken0912))

It can get overwhelming at times. Sometimes when things are so overwhelming you just have to break the "day by day" down into smaller pieces, like "minute by minute". Take some time to breathe, and then you've realized you've just gotten through that minute, and you can make it until the next. Take it on in bigger chunks as you feel more comfortable... "hour by hour" for example.

Try to find things that you enjoy, and focus on that. If there was ever a time to focus on yourself and do something just for you, now is that time.

Hang in there, and keep posting. We're here for you.


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