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User Topic: a moment to hold on to
SorrowBhindSmile
Member
Member # 38139
Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, September 2nd (Monday)

Last night, my WH and i were laying in bed snuggling. Our 3 week old granddaughter was sleeping peacefully on WH chest.

WH started crying and said "Thank You" and i said "for what" He said "for agreeing to commit to reconciling....because if you hadn't i wouldn't be here for moments like these"

I'm going to keep that one in my back pocket for those days when i am struggling and need hope to hold onto.

For anyone out there struggling....find a moment, write it down, carry it with you, keep it handy, so you can remind yourself, on the rough days, there is hope. Day by day. Hugs to all of you!


Me: BW
Him: WH
OW: My former "dear friend"/neighbor
Married 20+
Kids: 3
D-Day 12/2012
Committed to R 7/8/2013
"Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle"

Posts: 357 | Registered: Jan 2013
authenticnow
Moderator
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, September 2nd (Monday)

Beautiful!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37751 | Registered: Sep 2007
catlover50
Member
Member # 37154
Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, September 2nd (Monday)

That's awesome!



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1735 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
brkn_heartd
Member
Member # 30396
Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, September 2nd (Monday)

That is powerful!


Me-51 BS
Him 58-WS
Married 31 yrs, together 34
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1618 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
sinsof thefather
Member
Member # 29295
Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, September 2nd (Monday)

Beautiful!

This ^


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 1877 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
struggling3
Member
Member # 34671
Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, September 2nd (Monday)

Very powerful moments when you see that true remorse. Hold it close. Love the idea of trying to remember to hold onto the good for the bad moments. Inspiring.


Me - BS 55
H - WS 57/very remorseful and supportive
Kids 28, 25, 22
D-Day 8-5-11
discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic

Posts: 316 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
Topic Posts: 6