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Deanna
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Member # 26854
Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, September 2nd (Monday)

She gave him a peck on the cheek when she walked past him as if to say, "I want more than just flirting."
I have to tell you that I am not feeling anything today but greatful for the marriage we have today. That two months was a blip on the radar screen of our twenty four year marriage. Do I wish it didn't happen? Of course but I wouldn't go back to the way our marriage used to be for anything.
Not only can you survive but you can thrive!!!


DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

Posts: 1387 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Northeast
rachelc
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Member # 30314
Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, September 2nd (Monday)

So happy for you!!!
But, how do you get to thrive?!


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 48
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

ôSlide the weight from your shoulders and move forward. You are afraid you might forget, but you never will. You will forgive and remember."


Posts: 4506 | Registered: Dec 2010
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, September 2nd (Monday)


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2527 | Registered: Aug 2012
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, September 2nd (Monday)


Posts: 6232 | Registered: Dec 2010
Deanna
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Member # 26854
Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, September 2nd (Monday)

How do you get to thrive?

When you and your spouse are reconcilled (and you will know when that is) you will be able to move forward and become a better couple than you ever had been. It takes a lot of hard work but you will get there if your spouse is doing all the work and you can accept what happened. Accepting what happened was the hardest part for me.


DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

Posts: 1387 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Northeast
Topic Posts: 5