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WakingFromADream
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Member # 33934
Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday)

So, I am now officially divorced. I got the house at a significantly reduced valuation and she took all $25k of her student loans. We share 50/50 placement and I only owe her $130 a month in child support, the majority of which comes back to me due to insurance expenses. So I "win" for certain values of accounting.

This sucks.


Me(35) XWW(36) DS(7) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.


Posts: 1134 | Registered: Nov 2011
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday)

Be good to yourself today. I hope things go better for you now.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 8715 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday)

((wfad)) It all sucks.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 6982 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
sunsetslost
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Member # 39885
Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday)

Strength to you today and every day. Hope it gets better soon for you. I can't wait to divorce mine and move on


D Day: 6/13/13
Moving on. Every Single Day.

Posts: 476 | Registered: Jul 2013
nowiknow23
Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday)

((((Waking)))) Sending you comfort today. It gets better from here. Promise.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22516 | Registered: Aug 2011
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