So, I am now officially divorced. I got the house at a significantly reduced valuation and she took all $25k of her student loans. We share 50/50 placement and I only owe her $130 a month in child support, the majority of which comes back to me due to insurance expenses. So I "win" for certain values of accounting.
Me(35) XWW(36) DS(7) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13
Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.
Posts: 1148 | Registered: Nov 2011
Nature_Girl Member Member # 32554
Posted: 11:16 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday)
Be good to yourself today. I hope things go better for you now. Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
Posts: 9530 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Williesmom Member Member # 22870
Posted: 12:01 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday)
((wfad)) It all sucks.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 7563 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
sunsetslost Member Member # 39885
Posted: 12:03 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday)
Strength to you today and every day. Hope it gets better soon for you. I can't wait to divorce mine and move onDivorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
Posts: 734 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
nowiknow23 Guide Member # 33226
Posted: 12:58 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday)
((((Waking)))) Sending you comfort today. It gets better from here. Promise.You can call me NIK
"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."