User Topic: OW's H is cheating on her
Member # 34695
Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, September 4th (Wednesday)

My situation is a little different in that OW's H was not an "innocent betrayed" in all of this. He was the one who set up the threesomes between FWH and him and OW and told FWH that if I wasn't going to agree to swinging and/or group sex that he "needed to look out for his (FWH's) own needs." I remain convinced that the only reason OWH told me about the A is because OW and FWH broke his rules by cutting him out.

They've always had a shitty relationship. And after DDay she tried to apologize by saying that it wasn't her fault, and that she never meant for me to be involved in her terrible marriage. FWH and I responded with crickets to that, and to her subsequent fishing expeditions.

Just heard from a mutual friend that she's convinced he's cheating on her. And she's heartbroken and can't believe it.

Poor, stupid, pathetic OW.

Me - 39
Him - 38
Married 15 years
2 DS
Day my world crashed down: 12/22/11
In R. Most days.

Posts: 789 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: AZ
tired girl
Member # 28053
Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, September 4th (Wednesday)


Hey lady! How are you?

Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 5078 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
Member # 18522
Default  Posted: 1:24 AM, September 5th (Thursday)

Yup. What goes around, comes around.

Poor widdle muffin...

Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

Posts: 7824 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 1:55 AM, September 5th (Thursday)

Yep..It makes you wonder how anyone can think that both spouses screwing around can ever result in a good outcome. If you want to screw around with other people, just stay single!!!

After I filed for D from XWH#1, I found a membership to a swingers club under his nightstand drawer. I never asked him about it because at that point I didn't want to know what he was involved in. I just went and got STD tested to make sure he hadn't passed anything on to me.

M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 6:43 AM, September 5th (Thursday)

Oh no! Well, let's all say a prayer that it's not true. We all know how much this hurts. Poor thing. And she feels blindsided? Wow. I just can't imagine,can you? Bless her heart.

[This message edited by confused615 at 6:45 AM, September 5th (Thursday)]

FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling?

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.

Posts: 7697 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, September 5th (Thursday)

Hope it hurts OW a lot. I do wish this pain on my worst enemies. ( I only have one, OW!)

BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 9801 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Member # 38116
Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, September 5th (Thursday)

I just love that bitch, Karma!

ME: 30
WH: 35

Fool me once - Shame on you. Fool me twice - pack your shit and get out.

Posts: 310 | Registered: Jan 2013
Member # 34695
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, September 6th (Friday)

Yep, Karma's a beyotch! confused, are you a Southern girl? Because my Southern momma always said that: Bless her heart, and the more adjectives she used ("Bless her poor, little, ever-lovin' heart"), the more she was saying "Eff you!"

Hi TG!!! Things here continue to go really, really well. Despite this short rant against Whorseface, we're healing really well.

Me - 39
Him - 38
Married 15 years
2 DS
Day my world crashed down: 12/22/11
In R. Most days.

Posts: 789 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: AZ
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, September 6th (Friday)

Bless her broken heart!

I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2335 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Member # 40317
Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, September 6th (Friday)

MOW in my case was in an "open marriage" but it was a shitty one. Her husband got pissed about her relationship with WS, even though he was in a relationship with someone else too. That's how the whole affair blew up to begin with....her husband getting jealous of my WS.

They tried getting back together after DD#2, but I guess it's been short lived. She's been back living in the house since July 1st, and they are going through with divorce now.

Can't say I feel sorry for either of them, however, I DO feel sorry for the kids (11 and 14) that have to be dragged along for the *fun* of it.

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married: 17 years
2 children
2 DDays

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