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User Topic: Heart breaking for my kids :-(
sodamnlost
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Default  Posted: 6:49 AM, September 6th (Friday)

I know I am not alone in this one. STBXWH is my 2nd husband but has been there since my youngest was a year old. My oldest DD is turning 13 this weekend. She *ADORES* him. We were talking last night and she tells me the first time she met STBXWH is his first memory EVER. My heart is breaking knowing her tender, huge heart will be broken in a few days when we tell them. Today is her big party we have been planning for almost a year. Have to find my happy face...


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, September 6th (Friday)

((((sodamnlost)))) I remember the weight on my chest in the days before we told the kids. Every laugh cut me to the core, just knowing how their world was going to change. Focus on your DD's big day for now. Soak in every minute of it.

Sending you strength, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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