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frigidfire86
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, September 6th (Friday)

I'm over two years since D-Day and currently stuck in limbo. So...today I was looking online for info about the career field i want to be in after I finish school. Read jobs postings, researched companies, checked out salary info, etc. I was bored. I went on LinkedIn and was looking at others that have my dream job. Guess who pops up in my search? The OW. I had no idea what her job was...it never came up in all the talks I've had with my H. Now I'm pissed and second guessing what I want to do. She is already so much like me...the way she looks, her interests, and now her career. Really? Can't I have one damn thing that is entirely mine? Ugh! Initially I hated her guts, at least until I found out she didn't know H was married. Then I just felt bad for her unknowingly being an OW. Now...now I hate her, and my H. Why in the hell did he have to choose someone so much like me? The original wasn't enough so he had to get a cheap knockoff? Fuck! Today sucks huge fucking donkey balls!

[This message edited by frigidfire86 at 2:44 PM, September 6th (Friday)]


Me: 28
Him: 29
Married 8 years
Daughter, 7 yrs old
D-Day: 05/08/2011

Posts: 625 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Germany
cuppacoffee
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Member # 39313
Default  Posted: 2:58 PM, September 6th (Friday)

hugs.

I feel the same way about the husband's AP.


I suppose they felt something familiar in the AP. I almost feel I could have handled it better if she's weren't a younger version of me.


I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 361 | Registered: May 2013
frigidfire86
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Member # 32324
Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, September 6th (Friday)

OW in my case is older...and a little heavier (meaning bigger boobs because, God knows, that's important!) and she has a uni brow. Otherwise, she is me. He was "so unhappy" that he had to go find another one of me. He makes no damn sense.


Me: 28
Him: 29
Married 8 years
Daughter, 7 yrs old
D-Day: 05/08/2011

Posts: 625 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Germany
Topic Posts: 3